Signs and Symptoms of Bullying
Types of bullying
- Verbal bullying- Verbal bullying includes cruel spoken words i.e. different name calling, threatening and making disrespectful comments about someone’s religion, ethnic groups, sexual orientation, appearance.
- Physical bullying- This type of bullying involves aggressive, physical intimidation i.e. repeated hitting, kicking, tripping, blocking someone’s way, pushing and touching in unwanted and inappropriate ways.
- Relational bullying- Relational bullying involves deliberately stopping an individual from joining a particular group whether it’s a lunch table, game or a sport. All of this is done by spreading rumors and spoiling an individual’s reputation and asking others not to be a with him/her.
- Cyber bullying- It is the most common type of bullying that involves harming someone by spreading mean words such as lies, false rumors through e-mails, text messages and social media post.
Myths and facts
Myth- Bullying is just a normal phase of life, everybody goes through it; I went with it and my kids will also.
Fact- Bullying is not normal or in any order socially accepted, it is us who give bullies a hand to continue in bullying by not raising our voice and further accepting this behavior by categorizing it under normality.
Myth- ‘If I anybody about bullying incident, it will lead to worsen of situations and bullies will make my life .’
Fact- There are many researches who have proven that if authority figures and peers are involved then it can lead to end of bullying era.
Myth- People are born bullies.
Fact- Bullying comes from imitating, hence it is a learned behavior and every learned behavior can be unlearned.
How do you know you need counseling/Therapy?
Some signs telling that your child is being bullied-
- helpless, self-harm
Role of counseling & Therapy in dealing with bullying victims
Role of counseling & therapy for persons who bully
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
What can I do if I am bullied?Bullying is wrong, should not be normalize. It is not your or your child's fault. Everyone deserves to feel safe at school. Please find below, the steps you can follow in bullying situation. Speak up against bullying. Be firm and clear when you speak. Say something like “stop it”. Walk away. Try not to take it personally and make distance. Tell an adult you trust. Always report it to your parent, also to your teacher, counselor, or School Resource Officer. Stick together. Go out with your close and trusted friend who can help you to speak up and can get help for you if needed.
What should I do if I find my child is being bullied?When you first get to know that your child is being bullied, it can make you upset naturally and its becomes hard sometimes for parents to concentrate on anything else. All you want is to make your child feel safe and secure. Following steps may help you how to react with bullying incident happened with your child: Stay calm. Surely it going to upset you but you need to show calmness and safe place to your child so they can share their experience with you. Try not to give shocking reaction to them instead give them ears to listen everything. Empathize with your child. It’s not their fault and no one deserves to be bullied. Show them love and tell them you are glad they had the courage to tell you. Ask open-ended questions. Ask question and let your child explain everything in detail. And try to understand the severity of the situation, in future also keep asking question if it is a reoccurring issue. Encourage your child to make new friends. Help your child make new friends. Help your child get them involved in activities to make new friends. Share your own experiences. Sharing your own experiences so they can do not feel alone. Brainstorm ways to solve the problem nonviolently. Encourage them to resolve issue assertively as retaliation may get your child hurt or suspended from school. Contact school officials to report any incidences. Document everything and stick to the facts. And with calmness proceed with school norms, try not to overreact or get involve in heated arguments as this may can counter attack and will obviously not help the child.
How should I report bullying incidents in my child’s school?First step you can take is, to report directly to the class teacher about the bullying incident in detail, and let the teacher take the matter ahead. If teacher failed to take any helpful or required action you should talk to the principal of the school. If principle is not able to handle the situation or ignores it or you are not satisfied by their action you can contact to district school superintendent for the same.
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