1. My partner accuses me of flirting or cheating
2. My partner breaks things or throws things to intimidate me
3. My partner constantly checks up on me or makes me check in
4. My partner controls what I wear or how I look
5. My partner encourages me to try new things
6. My partner gets extremely jealous or possessive
7. My partner grabs, pushes, shoves, chokes, punches, slaps, holds me down, throws things or hurts me in some way
8. My partner has big mood swings - gets angry and yells at me one minute, but is sweet and apologetic the next
9. My partner is not liked very well by my friends
10. My partner is very supportive of things that I do
11. My partner likes to listen when I have something on my mind
12. My partner makes me feel like I can't do anything right or blames me for problems
13. My partner makes me feel like no one else would want me
14. My partner makes me feel nervous or like I'm "walking on eggshells"
15. My partner pressures or force me into having sex or going farther than I want to
16. My partner puts me down, calls me names or criticizes me
17. My partner says I'm too involved in different activities
18. My partner texts me or call me all the time
19. My partner thinks I spend too much time trying to look nice
20. My partner threatens to destroy my things
21. My partner threatens to hurt him or herself because of me
22. My partner threatens to hurt me, my friends or family
23. My partner tries to control what I do and who I see
24. My partner tries to keep me from seeing or talking to my family and friends
25. My partner understands that I have my own life too
26. My partner yells screams or humiliates me in front of other people
