Beauty Ideals on Social Media: Imprinting Young Minds

June 11 2025 TalktoAngel 0 comments 116 Views

In the age of smartphones and endless scrolling, social media platforms have become both a mirror and a mould for how young people perceive themselves and others. From flawless selfies to beauty filter trends, the digital world is shaping unrealistic beauty standards that often leave lasting marks on the mental and emotional well-being of young minds.

The Digital Mirror: Beauty in the Age of Likes

Platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and Snapchat flood users with images of seemingly perfect faces and bodies. Influencers, celebrities, and even peers often present curated versions of themselves—edited, filtered, and far removed from real life. While some of this content is aspirational or creative, much of it sets an unspoken standard of beauty that feels both unattainable and mandatory.

Children and teens, whose brains are still developing and who are still forming their identities, are particularly vulnerable to this messaging. According to Tiggemann and Slater (2014), exposure to appearance-focused content on social media has been significantly linked to body dissatisfaction and internalisation of thin ideals among adolescents.

The Impact on Self-Esteem and Mental Health

Social media doesn't just influence how young people look—it affects how they feel about how they look. Comparing oneself to carefully edited photos can trigger feelings of inadequacy, low self-worth, and anxiety.

Common psychological impacts include:

Body dissatisfaction: Feeling unhappy with one's appearance, even if it's perfectly healthy and normal.
Social comparison: Constantly measuring oneself against others leads to diminished self-esteem.
Disordered eating behaviours: Trying to conform to unrealistic body types can push some youth toward unhealthy eating or extreme exercise.
Anxiety and depression: The pressure to look “perfect” and gain validation via likes and comments can contribute to mental health issues.

A study by Fardouly et al. (2015) showed that even short-term exposure to images of peers on social media could negatively impact women’s body image. For young users who engage with such content daily, the long-term consequences can be profound.

The Role of Filters and Editing Apps

One of the more insidious elements of beauty standards on social media is the use of filters and editing tools. Apps like Facetune and Snapchat filters can slim faces, brighten eyes, smooth skin, and change facial proportions—all with a few taps.

This phenomenon has given rise to terms like “Snapchat dysmorphia,” a condition where people seek cosmetic procedures to look like their filtered selfies. What was once science fiction is now a common request in dermatology and plastic surgery clinics.

Young users often feel the need to use filters just to feel "presentable" online. Over time, this reliance can blur the line between one's real and virtual self, eroding confidence and increasing feelings of shame or disconnection from one's true appearance.

Gendered Expectations and Diversity Gaps

While girls and young women often face pressure to appear thin, fair-skinned, and flawless, boys are not immune. They may feel pushed to look muscular, tall, or rugged—standards that are equally unrealistic and harmful.

Additionally, social media frequently lacks representation of diverse body types, skin tones, disabilities, and non-gender-conforming individuals. This absence sends an implicit message: that beauty looks a certain way, and if you don't match it, you don't measure up.

Challenging these ideals requires not only more inclusive representation but also a cultural shift in how we define beauty.

How Parents, Educators, and Mental Health Professionals Can Help

1. Promote Media Literacy

Help young people understand that what they see online is often curated, filtered, and edited. Teaching them to question the reality behind the images helps reduce the power those images hold.

2. Encourage Body Neutrality or Positivity

Instead of focusing only on how one looks, encourage young people to value what their bodies do—move, dance, laugh, and express. Being body neutral changes the topic of discussion from appearance to admiration.

3. Create Safe Conversations

Give young people a safe venue to share their fears without passing judgment. Validate their feelings while gently challenging harmful beliefs.

4. Follow Diverse and Empowering Accounts

Encourage them to follow creators who promote self-acceptance, showcase body diversity, and dismantle traditional beauty norms.

5. Limit Screen Time

Encouraging time away from screens and social platforms can reduce exposure to harmful content and increase real-life connections and self-esteem.

The Role of Social Media Platforms

Tech companies also have a part to play. Algorithms could be designed to promote diverse content and reduce the visibility of filtered or surgically enhanced appearances. Trigger warnings, digital wellness nudges, and default unfiltered settings could go a long way toward protecting young users.

Conclusion

Social media is not inherently harmful—it can connect, inspire, and educate. However, when beauty ideals are narrowly defined and widely disseminated, they can harm impressionable minds, especially among young people. Helping them navigate this digital landscape with awareness, critical thinking, and self-compassion is essential for nurturing a generation that values authenticity over appearance and self-worth over likes. TalktoAngel, a leading platform for online counselling, provides access to professional therapists who are among the best psychologists in India, supporting individuals in building digital resilience, enhancing body image, and cultivating self-esteem. Through evidence-based therapies like Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), mindfulness, and self-compassion practices, TalktoAngel empowers young users to reclaim their self-worth in a world driven by filters and followers.

Contributed By: Dr. (Prof.) R. K. Suri, Clinical Psychologist and Life Coach, &. Ms. Sangeeta Pal, Counselling Psychologist.

References

Fardouly, J., Diedrichs, P. C., Vartanian, L. R., & Halliwell, E. (2015). Social comparisons on social media: The impact of Facebook on young women's body image concerns and mood. Body Image, 13, 38–45. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.bodyim.2014.12.002
Tiggemann, M., & Slater, A. (2014). NetGirls: The Internet, Facebook, and body image concern in adolescent girls. International Journal of Eating Disorders, 47(6), 630–643. https://doi.org/10.1002/eat.22254
Ramphul, K., & Mejias, S. G. (2018). Is “Snapchat dysmorphia” a real issue? Cureus, 10(3), e2263. https://doi.org/10.7759/cureus.2263
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